Are you considering sex in the great outdoors? Because it’s finally almost cool enough not to sweat all over each other, stick to everything, and just not really enjoy it that much. (That is unless you like water sex, in which case, summer is going to be the best time for that.)
But if you like to have sex outside, now is the best time to do it. The temps are cooler, the bugs are gone, the nights are full of stars, and there’s no more perfect time to cuddle than in the Fall. These are all the ways to enjoy sex outside.
Don’t Get Caught
Be somewhere that feels private enough to be comfortable and to be outside but not “out in public.” You want to be outside feeling free and doing something just a little naughty because after all, that’s the point. But you don’t want to get caught, stared at, pointed at, or disrupted. So, take your time to think of a good spot so that you can fully enjoy the moment.
Pick a Private Spot
Most of us have a balcony or some kind of area outside that is private to us. This is a great starter place if you’re an outside sex newbie. Plus, you can hang a blanket or block it off so that you are technically outside but you are also completely hidden. This is just like outside sex but in the comfort of your own space.
Take A Blanket
It’s going to feel better to be on a soft blanket or towel, so don’t forget this part. You will want something separating you from the ground, sand, tree, grass, or wherever it is you plan to lay down, to get down.
Wear Your Hair Up
You don’t want your hair tangling with the elements. Tying your hair back allows you to kiss and be hair free to cuddle and fully appreciated the touches and movements without your hair being in the way.
Sex outside is thrilling. Get behind the idea and embrace it, it’ll be fun! See it as a risqué adventure and get into it! If you are constantly worried about getting caught or trying to make it literally be like a bed outside, you won’t enjoy it.
If you compare outside sex to bed sex, shower sex, car sex, or anything else, you won’t be able to fully enjoy it. You need to accept it for what it is and enjoy it for what it is. It’s a little weird and sometimes it isn’t the most comfortable. But it’s also fun, exhilarating, and even if you’ve only ever done it once, at least you can say that you did it.
Camping is great for outside sex. You’re already outside, have access to a picnic table and flat land, and without the lights of the city, the stars will look limitless and amazing against the night sky. Plus, who doesn’t love camping?
Moral of the story? Make it happen. Sex is one of the most enjoyable things in this life but always doing it in the same place and time is boring. So shake it up and get outside. Or at the very least, outside the bedroom.