When it comes to having a healthy copulation life, one’s size really should not be considered a factor. However, it seems that there are still people who appear shocked by the idea of someone overweight having and enjoying copulation, especially a lot of copulation. With fat shaming being so prevalent nowadays, the last thing people should be doing is questioning someone’s copulation life because of their size, and yet it happens all the time, and really isn’t this a sort of shaming on its own?
Much like everyone is different from each other, so too are their copulation lives. Some people are genuinely going to be more active sensually than others, and it does not matter how big or small you are. While you may want copulation every day, other people may not want copulation at all, our sensual appetites do not depend on our weight necessarily, but rather on who we are as people.
While it is perhaps common knowledge that no two people are going to want the same things in life, particularly in terms of copulation, this does not mean that there are not plenty of stereotypes that are associated with “fat” people. Perhaps the funniest aspect of many of these stereotypes is that often these inaccurate assumptions are not only patently false, but they even contradict other stereotypes that have been made.
Stereotypes Debunked
Fat People Don’t Want Copulation
We may be chunky, thick, curvy, or any other adjective to describe our bodies, but we are still people, and we still want copulation (unless we are asensual). In fact, we want copulation just as much as anyone else does. Thinking that someone’s size is going to be an influence on their wants is ridiculous and even prejudiced. Don’t be that person.
Fat People Aren’t Having Much Copulation
Again, size is not the issue here. Where there is a will, there is a way, and size will ultimately not hold someone back from having copulation if they really want it. While there may be those people not interested in someone because of their size, this does not mean that there are not people out there who enjoy having copulation with larger people. The amount of copulation a person has is not determined by their size, but rather by their actions and their own needs and wants.
Size Matters When It Comes to Having Copulation
First of all, no one ever points to a thinner person and questions them on how much copulation they are having, so why do bigger people have that problem? If one’s height isn’t going to be a problem when it comes to copulation, then why should weight? Sure there may be some positions you don’t necessarily want to try or engage in, but being fat isn’t the end all, be all of what matters when it comes to having copulation.
What About Those Copulation Positions…
I already mentioned that there are some sensual positions a person may not want to try, but does this mean they can’t be done? The answer is no. Here is the thing; just because someone may not want to do something, does not mean they can’t do something. Yes, a “fat” girl can be on top when it comes to having copulation. No, you won’t get smooshed to death. Getting picked up and held against a wall can happen too. It all depends on your partner. If they are strong enough then what is the issue here?
The reality is that there are plenty of copulation positions big girls aren’t going to be comfortable in, but those same positions may not be comfortable for a smaller person either. The Kama Sutra is not for everyone. We aren’t all super flexible or even all that adventurous. As I said before, everyone is different and our likes and wants are all going to be different. The same can be said about what positions we want to try or even enjoy being in when it comes to having copulation.
Copulationy At Any Size
Copulationy comes in all sizes and just because you may be fat, it doesn’t mean you aren’t copulationy. Copulationy is about confidence. The more confidence you have then the copulationier you will be. If you love yourself, then the rest is gravy.
Confidence can be a difficult thing for any woman or man, no matter their size. However, if you work on developing your confidence it is amazing how even the little things can seem unimportant. Sometimes you have to fake it until you make, but if you have someone who also loves you for you, then the rest is all about appreciating who you are.
*No one should have to worry about stereotypes when it comes to appreciating or enjoying copulation. Everyone is different and it doesn’t matter how big or small they are, what we want, need, and desire is all based on who we are as individuals. *
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