If you are looking to spice things up in your relationship, then you may want to be more sexually spontaneous. And we don’t mean by adding in things like toys or bondage, although there is nothing wrong with that either. Instead, we think random, unplanned sex is the way to go. The reason it is so important to engage in spontaneous sex is because of what it can do for your relationship, and it might actually be surprising to learn what some of the benefits actually are.
Sex in general is an important aspect of a relationship, but when you always plan things out it can take the fun and excitement out of your coupling. From changing things up to just adding more spontaneity in the bedroom, we think you’ll want to shake things up once you realize just how good for you spontaneous sex is.
Reasons Why Spontaneous Sex Are Important
Spontaneous sex is a confidence booster, not just for you but for your partner as well. It lets them know that you want them and can’t keep your hands off of them, even in a random moment that you might not think of as being sexually charged. It is also a chance to show yourself that you are wanted as your partner finds themselves engaging with you too, and adding their own passions to the mix. There is nothing that will make you feel better about yourself than knowing just how much your partner wants you (when they initiate the sex). And when you initiate that sex spontaneously they will feel the same way.
Shows Sincerity in Your Relationship
There is something extremely sincere about spontaneous sex. It is an honest show of appreciation for your partner. And at the same time, it allows both of you to make it clear that sex and your relationship are not an obligation, but rather a natural aspect of being together. There is no need to feel like you have to be ready at some set time or that sex is some job that needs to be accomplished. Sexual spontaneity is showing your partner that in that moment you want them so much that you simply can’t help yourself.
Builds Natural Anticipation
When spontaneity becomes a part of your relationship and sex life, a sense of anticipation begins to build up. The randomness of never knowing when sex might happen will actually give your sex life even more of a boost because anticipation makes things better. It’s a chance to take date night up a notch or to take a regular day of running errands and turn it into the perfect opportunity to show your partner that they turn you on no matter what they are doing with you.
Builds the Excitement
To go along with the anticipation, there is also more excitement when the sex is spontaneous. Simply put there is also a sense of excitement that comes with not knowing when some good old-fashioned hanky panky is happening. This is a chance to get your emotions involved and spike your heart rate, as well as your libido. The sex becomes more of a surprise and less of a weird chore that you both feel obligated to take part in. Surprise and excitement are fun and even important to help make your bond stronger as a couple.
It Just Makes It Better
Spontaneous sex is simply going to make the sex better. It’s this overwhelmingly satisfying experience that capitalizes on the fact that you are actually horny when you grab for your partner in an attempt to seduce them. The mood strikes and you find yourself ready for action and more than happy to get them ready too. It becomes a mutual experience that both of you can appreciate. This is your chance to indulge and have your sexual urges fulfilled, while also giving your partner just as much appreciation.
Spontaneous sex is a great way to reinvigorate your sex life, while also making for an incredibly sexy experience. Think of this as your chance to make date night something special or maybe taking a day that seems ordinary and making it extraordinary. No matter how you decide to incorporate spontaneous sex into your routine, you will find that it will not only reinvigorate your sex life, but also your relationship as a whole.