There is one magical word that millions of people all over the world fantasize about and that word is “threesome”. There is something about having copulation with multiple partners at the same time that is just so enticing to the average sensually charged person. You can imagine it right now, can’t you? Bodies brushing against multiple people on the bed as you caress one another, slowly building up towards unfiltered and exciting copulation. How can you not indulge yourself in such an exhilarating fantasy?
While it is surely extremely tempting, the reality of setting up a threesome and participating in it is very different. Some people find it extremely difficult to ask their partners if they are up for a threesome, out of fear of spoiling, or god forbid killing their relationship. Even if as a couple you guys decide to go for a threesome, there are still so many potential problems that may arise. Unlike porn, having copulation with multiple people is not only hard, but extremely exhausting. Moreover, the first few times you will be faced with a lot of awkwardness as you struggle to move your body against two other people. No one wants to have an awkward and embarrassing threesome where limbs clash against one another and painful moments of discomfort.
Luckily, this guide can help you to experience a threesome in all its glory. Before we get into the tips, it is important to state that there are three unique experiences when it comes to participating in a threesome. Either you are the third partner who wishes to have copulation with a couple; a part of the couple who is looking for a third partner or you are a single person seeking two other single individuals for some fun. There’s nothing greater than having casual copulation as a couple or a single person. Here is how you can exponentially improve your threesome experience.
1) Everyone Needs To Be Comfortable
This is the most important tip for setting up a threesome. Nothing can be more disappointing than having an awkward threesome experience. Before you even start planning for finding a third partner, you need to make sure that both you and your partner are comfortable with it. Having a threesome can have severe consequences for your relationship, if both of you aren’t well prepared physically and mentally for it. Once you are convinced that both of you are ready, you need to find a suitable third partner and just hang out with him/her to get to know them. The more comfortable you are with each other, the better experience you will have.
2) Set Boundaries and Enforce Them
When you are having copulation with a third partner, it is extremely important to set up boundaries and stick to them. Remember, that it’s not just about you when it comes to a threesome. All people involved should never feel like they are being forced to do something. Every person has their own boundaries pertaining to what they will never engage in, when it comes to copulation and it is very important to respect that. Before you start humping each other, talk to one another and set up some base ground rules. Once everyone knows what the boundaries are, make sure you stick to them.
3) Communication is Key
In porn, threesomes may be just about banging each other in frenzy, but in reality it is very different. To have a great threesome experience you need to constantly communicate with each other about how it is going and making sure that everyone is doing well and having fun. This doesn’t mean you have to stop and talk a lot while having copulation. All you need to do is, pay attention to the body language of your partners and make sure that they aren’t feeling uncomfortable. If you feel any discomfort whatsoever, let them know and shift positions accordingly to prevent any potential permanent injury from happening.
4) Try Not to Drink and Have a Threesome
Alcohol and copulation may go well together in our minds, but only because usually the people involved are too drunk to realize what is happening. You really find out how alcohol and copulation mixes when only your partner is drunk. That’s when you see the slobbery copulation that you previously thought was so great and memorable. Now, when you add alcohol to a threesome, it just makes it a terrible and a horrible idea. Getting drunk is also quite dangerous, especially if anyone starts breaking the set boundaries.
5) Keep Expectations Low and Realistic
If you are having a threesome for the first time, it is important to keep a realistic expectation for the upcoming experience. Things don’t go as planned especially when having copulation with multiple partners. It might be awkward a bit, you might hit the other person accidentally with your limbs or you just might get tired fast and stop engaging the others. So if you dream about this awesome experience where you are engaging yourself and the others sensually and feeling pleasure unlike any other experience you have had, then you might get real disappointed when reality strikes. Always remember, you are having a threesome for having a great time. Don’t take it too seriously. Relax and enjoy the ride in all its glory and flaws.
6) Finding the Right Third Partner
If you and your significant other are looking to have a threesome, you will have to either get a friend or a complete stranger. If you decide to get a friend, it is extremely important that you think it through properly. Your friend knows you and your partner and you don’t want it to spoil or end your relationship with him/her. Having a threesome with a friend means that he/she might feel like doing it again later and since he/she already knows where you live; be prepared for intrusive behavior. On the other hand, if you try to get a complete stranger online, then you need to worry about whether that person is a sane individual or a crazy person. If you find someone online, don’t just jump into the bed instantly with him/her. Go out a couple of times and get to know him/her a little bit. Once you are sure of your choice, then don’t plan on having the threesome at home, because it wouldn’t be wise to reveal your home address. Instead book a room in the hotel and depending on how your threesome experience goes, you can choose to contact him/her or not. Always be cautious and think of any potential consequences before acting on any impulse.