There really should be no surprise that the year starts off in Capricorn. We’re all racking our brains on how to be our best selves. Of course, there’s powerful Capricorn energy raining down on us. Though some of us aren’t just being affected by the power of the season. You may have your eye on a certain someone. If so, we’ve got the tips to help you date a Capricorn.
So whether you’re falling for, fell for, or are just thinking about dating a Capricorn our guide has something for you. As with most relationships, it’s best to start with getting to know your Capricorn.
Who They Are
The Capricorn is all about hard work. They’ll always do what’s needed to get a job done. Which means that when everyone else is putzing around your Capricorn is going to start handling whatever situation arises. It’s incredibly attractive knowing that dating a Capricorn means being with someone who’s responsible and reliable. Not a quality a lot of signs guarantee.
The Best of What They Bring To You
It’s no secret that the Capricorn is all about pushing for their best self. But did you know they’d be pushing for yours as well? So if you really want to impress a Capricorn show off your hard work. Talk about tackling your debt. Or bring up the big promotion you’re going after. Watch as your Capricorn’s eyes sparkle with excitement. Listen as they put the full force of their encouragement behind you. There’s nothing like a Capricorn’s drive to be the best self. So if you’re looking for a motivational partner, you’re looking to date a Capricorn.
Know Things Will Move Slowly
Capricorns take their time making decisions. This isn’t just true about big life plans. When it comes to letting new people in, especially to giving away their heart, they are going to take time. So, if you’re going to date a Capricorn, be patient. I remember my Capricorn once telling me, “I know that when I love someone, it’s going to be amazing, so I’m saving it for someone who’s worth it.”
At the time I couldn’t have thought of a more arrogant thing to say. Five years later and I can say it was the truth. It didn’t happen overnight. In fact, in the beginning, his guarded demeanor made him hard to read. But as we got closer, he opened up, and as he opened up, I began to feel the full force of that love he so arrogantly knew was special.
What They Require
A Capricorn demands three things above all else—authenticity, dependency and a sense of purpose. They will be happiest in a relationship that feels like it is accomplishing something. That something can be expanding their hearts or working on an art project. The specifics aren’t as important as the sense of purpose. An imperative when dating a Capricorn.
Beyond a sense of purpose, they require complete authenticity. A Capricorn doesn’t enjoy small talk. Instead, they desire someone who will give it to them straight. They don’t want to waste time discussing the weather. But they are interested in what you’re thinking. So when dating a Capricorn tell it like it is.
Most importantly, the Capricorn needs dependability. It is what they base their lives off of. They handle their work, get what needs to be done, done, and are wherever they say they will be. In return, they need to know they can count on you to do the same.
Less of a Must and a More of a Plus
Capricorns are attracted to partners who are high achievers. They want someone who recognizes all that they do them. And someone who demonstrates their love for their Capricorn. That means when dating a Capricorn the harder you work, the more they’ll want you. Diligence has never seemed so sexy!
Don’t let your Capricorn be the only one noticing the hard work though. It’s important to acknowledge all that your Capricorn does. And if you really want to keep your Capricorn around make sure you’re doing sweet things for them. Whether it’s making their favorite meal. Surprising them by taking care of their errands. Or stroking their hair as they fall asleep. Small acts that show you care will go a long way.
This series will be continuing all month long with all you need to know to date a Capricorn. From dates that will spark their interests to tips for dealing with their worst traits. You’ll find everything you need to know about dating a Capricorn here.
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