Did you know that men enjoy foreplay just as much, if not more than women? That’s right! Not every man wants “wham, bam, thank you ma’am” sex. On average, 18% of men spend at least 30 minutes engaging in foreplay, but one-third of those men would like the build-up to last even longer than that.
Foreplay is any form of sexual activity or physical contact that precedes intercourse. Some go-to forms of foreplay include dirty talk, sensual massage, or even role-playing. Pornography is another popular choice. Whether you watch it alone or together, viewing pornographic videos is one way to get your juices flowing (literally).
But if you’re one of the 36% of people who claim to never watch porn, you may be seeking an alternative way to prep for sex. Introducing: erotic audio. These sex stories combine the intensity of watching porn and the discreetness of reading erotica for a new and intoxicating way to enjoy foreplay.
Eager to learn more? Keep reading for a complete guide to using erotic audio as foreplay and get ready for a tantalizing treat for all your senses!
What to Expect from Listening to Erotic Audio
While the name seems pretty self-explanatory, you may be wondering exactly what is erotic audio? Imagine your favorite erotica stories being read aloud by narrators with seductive and captivating voices.
As you close your eyes and let your imagination run wild, the narrators create vivid images in your mind. Your interest and arousal are piqued. As the story unfolds, you add your own personal details to the characters and setting. The voice fills your ears with every moan and whimper, like a seductive lover whispering to you.
That’s erotic audio! The beauty of this new medium is that it’s an intimate experience — one you can share with a partner or use alone. Both are equally arousing experiences.
Erotic Audio as Foreplay
Welcome to the world of sex stories. So, you want to use erotic audio as foreplay? Let’s dig deeper into the many ways you can utilize this resource as a tool for sexual build-up and satisfaction.
For most people, using pornography is a private, intimate experience. One they prefer to enjoy solo. If you’re one of those people, you can use erotic audio as build-up to the main event. This can be done hours before sex, throughout the day, or as you wait in bed for your lover to arrive.
Slide between the sheets, get comfortable, and choose an audio sex story that puts you in the mood. You can choose from several categories including threesomes, romantic sex, BDSM, mature, fetish, and more. As you listen, gently explore your body. Tickle your stomach, caress your thighs, but try hard not to go too far. Remember, foreplay is meant to tease you, not please you!
As you feel yourself getting more and more excited, you can send suggestive texts to your partner or even share the audio story so they can listen in anticipation of your rendezvous.
What better way to engage in foreplay than together? Climb into bed beside one another and either play the erotic story aloud on one of your devices or share a pair of earbuds. Stay within arms reach for some gentle petting or make a “hands-off” pact until the story ends.
Watch as your partner is enveloped in desire. Take notice of how their body moves and responds to the story. Which parts excite them most? You can use these as clues into what your lover likes and wants. But don’t forget to focus on your own pleasure as well. Let the story bring you to the height of pleasure before you both can’t help but ravish one another.
Does your sexting game need work? Have you overused all the dirty talk phrases in your wheelhouse? sex stories can act as naughty inspiration for spicing up both your foreplay game and the sex that follows.
Listen to a few stories and take notice of how the characters talk to one another and engage. They probably use words, phrases, and gestures you’ve never tried or even thought of. Take inspiration from their outfits, how they set the scene, the backdrop, and even the sex acts they use. After a few stories, you’ll not only be aroused but inspired!
Role-play and Reenact
Role-playing is a popular way to not only spice up your sex life but also a fun way to tempt and tease one another. Was there a particular costume or scenario that you enjoyed listening to? Perhaps erotic audio is the motivation you need to finally break out those red heels and a sexy nurse outfit or tie your partner up and act like a naughty dominatrix.
Short on ideas? You can always reenact the entire story or scene, word for word, and move for move! Find one that both you and your lover are excited about and get ready to collect your Academy Award. Embody the characters, including their personalities and clothes. Sometimes, pretending to be someone else is the best way to reconnect with your other half.
See Also: Introducing Dirty Talk to the Bedroom
Introduce Secret Fantasies
The hottest foreplay usually surrounds your hidden fantasies. Dirty talk involves describing what you would do or want to do. Role-playing is about acting like someone else and recreating your ideal sex scene.
If there’s something you’re dying to try but aren’t sure how to bring it up to your partner, erotic audio can help. While listening together, highlight your favorite scenes and moments. Share an erotic sex story where the main theme is your deepest desire. If merely talking about your fantasies gets you both aroused, just imagine what the real thing would do?
Erotic Audio Inspires and Excites
Foreplay is all about the build-up and anticipation. The longer you can wait to give in to your deepest desires, the more intense the release and pleasure. While there are plenty of forms of foreplay to choose from, sometimes, you need to change things up.
erotic audio is a great way to take your foreplay game to the next level. Listen alone or together for a seductive experience that’ll leave you primed for pleasure.