When we are sleeping with someone, we often want them to be able to turn us on and get us in the mood. But the reality is that you really need to be able to do this for yourself. This is also something that really comes in handy when you don’t have a helping hand. Basically turning yourself on is a two-fold thing, it is good when you are alone and when you are playing with a partner. But how do you do it?
In order to get in the mood, you may have to give your libido a boost. To have the best orgasms, you really need to be horny, so it is important to figure out how to make that happen. And besides how is your partner going to turn you on if you don’t know how to do it for yourself?
It is important to know your own body. Play with yourself, try different things, and figure out the techniques and tricks that will light you up. In order to figure out what it is that makes you horny, you are going to have to enjoy some me time.
Might we suggest lighting some candles and taking some time in the shower or bath? Set the mood for yourself and figure out where you will be the most comfortable. It takes a bit of work to get yourself in the zone, so you want to be as relaxed and comfortable as possible.
Once you have gotten into the right mindset, it’s time to get down and dirty – with yourself. You’re never going to figure all of this out if you don’t start masturbating. Being aroused is certainly important, but there is so much more to all of this that is equally as important. It’s also about touch and sensations.
For many women, the thing that is going to actually get them off is direct contact with the clitoris. This is why we recommend starting there. Sure you want more than just this one button of nerves being stimulated, but considering how many women need this direct contact in order to orgasm, this is the perfect starting point for any experimentation.
Try different techniques. Switch things up by using varying amounts of pressure and trying different strokes. Just like many other things, practice makes perfect and you may find that your body reacts differently to the different levels of stimulation.
Masturbation leads to other things (and no we don’t mean copulation, although that too), such as playing with toys and different positions of the body. Have some fun and figure out what it is that gets your engine revving.
So now that the toys and varying levels of stimulation have been incorporated, it is time to move away from the vagina. Because guess what? All of your body should be engaged in copulationy time. Your skin is the largest organ in and on your body, so utilize it.
Play with all of your body, even your hair, and determine what are the things that turn you on. It will be amazing to learn yourself well enough that you can turn yourself on without any help.
Enjoy some copulationy time with yourself. Lingerie is a great way to do this. If you feel copulationy, it will change the way you feel about your body and getting horny. And remember that this is not something you just do once and move on. The more you do this and get yourself worked up, the better it will be once it comes time to actually enjoy copulationy time with your partner.
All of this is what leads up to being able to get comfortable with your partner. And being comfortable with them will help you when it comes time to get yourself in the mood.
You’ll realize that you don’t need them to get you hot and horny. Instead, knowing that you have the ability to kick-start your libido all on your own will help make your copulation life hotter because it isn’t all up to them.
Learning more about yourself and your body is important for so many reasons. And you will find that being able to get yourself in the mood helps in so many other areas, including boosting your confidence and improving your overall relationship.
