The male orgasm is an intense, passionate experience, but what if it could be even more powerful? You may have heard of prostate massagers, and over the past few years, these toys have exploded in popularity.
This is because they let you stimulate the prostate, otherwise known as the P-spot. This, in turn, can result in more explosive, vivid orgasms.
What’s a Prostate Massager?
Prostate massagers are a type of adult toy that is meant to stimulate the prostate, located inside of the anus. They’re generally long and have a hook-like shape, and often come with beads or ribs to add texture.
Some of them also look and function like butt plugs, but most are longer and not as wide. You can find both non-vibrating and vibrating option, giving you room to find what you’re comfortable with.
Non-vibrating prostate massagers are made of an array of materials, from hard plastics to metals to silicone.
These toys tend to be longer and narrower, with textures and beads to maximize prostate stimulation and get you that explosive orgasm.
They also tend to be the most affordable option, making them great for men looking to explore their body more.
Vibrating prostate massagers are usually made of silicone and other synthetic materials. They can come with a multitude of vibration settings, from a gentle buzz to a gnarly swivel, and tend to be a little thicker than their non-vibrating counterparts.
You can find some meant to be used on a partner, while others are specially made to be used solo. These are the go-to for men who really want to explore the prostate.
How to Use a Prostate Massager
Depending on the type of massager that you have, there are different methods to maximize pleasure. Always lubricate your toy and make sure that you’re ready for anal play.
If you have a non-vibrating toy, then you’ll simply want to slowly insert it into your anus until you hit the P-spot. Then you or your partner can move it in any pattern that stimulates you the most.
If you have a vibrator, then you’ll have to pay attention to the specific design of your toy. Some options are meant to be used with a partner, while others are meant to be used solo.
Many solo models have you sit on the toy, while others have a “C” shape that lets you grip it and insert it yourself. It’ll vary from toy to toy, so make sure to check that out before use.
What’s a Prostate Orgasm?
A prostate orgasm, commonly called “prostate milking,” is a much more intense orgasm that only people with prostate can experience.
The prostate is a gland that’s partially responsible for creating semen and can be stimulated through the anus.
Generally speaking, anyone without a uterus will have a prostate, meaning they can experience this alternative to penile orgasms.
They take some practice, but once you understand how to stimulate your prostate, you’ll never want to go back to traditional orgasms.
How Prostate Orgasms Differ from Traditional Orgasms
There are a few primary ways that prostate orgasms are different from regular ones. The biggest differences are in intensity, ejactulate, and recovery time.
Prostate orgasms are much more intense. While a normal penile orgasm is incredible, leaving many men shaking afterward, prostate orgasms are the next level.
Something about directly stimulating the gland really bumps up the experience. It gets even better if you combine prostate milking with your ordinary penis masturbation.
Prostate orgasms don’t always result in ejaculation. While it can be tough to predict at first, men who know their bodies are often able to cum multiple times without ever letting out any semen.
Though if you combine it with regular masturbation, you’ll actually have more ejaculate.
After orgasming through penile stimulation, men need to rest for at least a few minutes before being able to orgasm again.
But with prostate orgasms, you don’t have to wait, meaning you can keep orgasming after only a few seconds of rest.
This means you can turn the usual few seconds of intense pleasure into minutes, or even hours, of nonstop bliss.
Using a Prostate Massager for Anal Play
You can use your hands or rely on a partner for prostate milking, but your best bet is a prostate massager.
These toys are able to provide the constant stimulation needed for a truly pleasurable prostate orgasm.
When you’re using a prostate massager, you want to make sure you’re being clean and healthy with it. Then, you’ll be able to experience the most intense orgasms of your life.
Most of the time, you won’t have to worry about any debris in your anus, but if you’re not sure, you can always use an anal douche.
You also always want to make sure that you clean and lubricate your massager before each use and clean up afterward.
Just like with anal sex, you don’t want to just shove a prostate massager into your anus. You want to make sure that you’re relaxed and ready.
If you’re with a partner, make sure that you’re engaging in plenty of anal foreplay to loosen things up and get the blood flowing down there.
If you’re alone, then make sure that you’re relaxing like your would with normal masturbation.
Don’t worry about trying to find the “right way” to stimulate your prostate. Just do what feels good, and communicate with your partner to make sure you’re getting the best experience possible.
Even if you don’t achieve a full prostate orgasm, it’s still going to feel incredible.
Getting a Better Orgasm
Prostate massagers are becoming increasingly popular as more men become comfortable with anal play. Prostate milking is an incredible way to enhance any man’s sex life, and these adult toys make it even better.
By understanding your body, you can choose a prostate massager that suits you, letting you experience more intense, vivid orgasms.